Thursday, November 18, 2010

Letters Make the World Shrink in Dear Pen Pal

When I was a kid, I really wanted a pen pal. Oh, I had a cousin out of town who I’d write to now and then, but I wanted a friendship forged entirely from pen and paper with someone on the other side of the country or the world. It wasn’t until the past decade, with my immersion in the Internet, that this longing was fulfilled, and I have delighted in making dozens of friends online, a few of whom I feel as though I’ve known my whole life. And of that select group, I’ve actually gone on to meet four. What a thrill that was! I hope there are more meetings to come.

In Dear Pen Pal, the third book in the Mother-Daughter Book Club intermediate series by Heather Vogel Frederick, Emma Hawthorne, the character with whom I most identify, embraces the pen pal experience as whole-heartedly as I would have if I’d gotten my act together and found a pen pal at that age. The others in the club? Not so much. Writing a letter feels too much like homework. And what makes their mothers think they have anything in common with these girls way out in Wyoming, anyway? But as the year wears on, they come to find comfort in the idea of confiding in an unseen friend hundreds of miles away, especially when they have a lot on their minds.

Of the four books in the series thus far, Dear Pen Pal is the only one that is focused on a book with which I had no prior familiarity. I need to read Daddy Longlegs one of these days; Frederick certainly makes it sound appealing. While I did miss the fun of picking up on all of the references to the book that the mothers and daughters are reading together, I was wholly in love with the series at this point and didn’t need the tie-in to a beloved novel to keep me engaged.

A lot is happening in this installment. It’s eighth grade, a big year for the girls, who include bookish Emma, shy farm girl Jess Delaney, tomboyish hockey player Cassidy Sloane, artistic only child Megan Wong and flirtatious Becca Chadwick. Becca is really more of a side player, since she’s the only one of the book club daughters not to narrate her own chapter, but she’s still worth mentioning, since after two books’ worth of hostility, she’s finally been successfully integrated into this group. She still occasionally exhibits catty behavior, but on the whole, these girls have resolved their issues with each other.

But one thing that every book in the series has is at least one snotty girl who makes life miserable for one or more of the book club members. This time, it’s Savannah, Jess’s roommate at the prestigious girls’ boarding school she reluctantly agreed to attend. Jess is very shy, though less withdrawn than at the beginning of the series, so it’s a real struggle for her to embrace this new challenge at first, even though she’s a brilliant student. Stuck-up Senator’s daughter Savannah doesn’t help. But might there be more to her than meets the eye?

Each of the girls has challenges to face this year as big changes come into their lives. For Emma, it’s been a pretty good year, since she has a boyfriend - or “sort-of boyfriend,” anyway - in quiet, bumbling kindred spirit Stewart, Becca’s brother. Plus, she’s grown closer to grandmotherly Eva Bergson, a former Olympic ice skater who is giving her lessons. Eva has a great gift for encouraging others, and she urges Emma to use her writing skills to protest the unpopular new uniforms at her school. I confess myself surprised that the uniform bothered Emma; like her, I have never been fashion-conscious, and it was a relief to me to get to high school and find that I no longer had to worry about getting made fun of for my wardrobe. I would’ve thought the same would apply to her. Maybe she just empathizes with her more stylish pals, particularly Megan.

Megan’s grandmother Gigi becomes fast friends with Eva, particularly after both of them begin joining in on the book club meetings. Gigi is from Hong Kong, and she loves fashion just as much as Megan does. Indeed, they seem to have just about everything in common, while Megan and her mom are exact opposites. This year, Megan reminded me very much of Claudia, the Japanese girl in the Babysitters’ Club series who is artistic, whose parents don’t approve of her aspirations and who is especially close to her grandmother. Gigi becomes a permanent part of the household, but the squabbles between her and her daughter intensify, and just as Megan was caught in the cross-fire between Becca and her book club buddies in the second book, she’s stuck in the middle here as well.

Never having had a sibling, she’s jealous of Cassidy, whose recently married mother announces that a baby is on the way. But while Cassidy is grudgingly coming to accept the presence of her mild-mannered stepfather Stanley, she is disgusted by the prospect of a baby and glowers whenever anyone mentions it. Though she hates to admit it, she also is having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that her sister Courtney will be going off to college in the fall. While they’ve had a rocky relationship at times, her impending departure makes her realize how important Courtney is to her.

Through it all, they write to their pen pals, who write back with dramas and dreams of their own, and this book follows the pattern set by the others by concluding with a big trip, this time to Wyoming so they can all meet each other and connect on another level. It’s an engrossing book deepened by the expansion of focus into three generations instead of just two. There is a certain rhythm to these books that makes some of the events fairly predictable, but I don’t mind that, since the novel takes us in such wonderful directions, and occasionally it pulls off a surprise or two as well.

The entire series is a testament to the power of the written word to bring people together, but there’s a deeper layer of that here, with so much of the writing and reading in this book being a true dialogue. It just goes to show that there are many ways to make friends - but keeping them will always involve the same type of kindness and consideration that these imperfect but endearing girls display in their best moments.

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